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The Kiepersol Tree and the Goats: A Metaphor for Power, Yielding, and Consequences Being fully armed does not mean you must fight Have you ever felt like you were being pushed around, underestimated, or treated unfairly? It can be a frustrating and even painful experience. A Zulu proverb, "Goba msenge udliwe izimbuzi," offers a powerful metaphor for this situation. It translates to "Let the kiepersol tree bend so that the goats may eat of it." The kiepersol tree is a hardy plant known for its resilience and ability to survive in harsh conditions. Goats, on the other hand, are often seen as gentle creatures, but they can be destructive if given the opportunity. The proverb suggests that a strong, powerful individual might choose to yield to harassment or insult, even though they know they could easily defend themselves. While this might seem like a selfless act, it can have serious consequences. The goats may become emboldened by the tree's submission and continu

Decoding 'Wenzeni uZuma':  Unraveling the Mystery Behind the Chant   Zuma is always welcomed by tens and thousands who will defend him by asking "wenzeni uZuma?" In the tumultuous world of South African politics, one chant echoed through the streets: "Wenzeni uZuma," a phrase that became the battle cry for former President Zuma's supporters. But what exactly did Zuma do to earn this catchy slogan?   The allegations against Zuma range from misconduct to a notorious state capture orchestrated by the Gupta family, who seemingly had a VIP pass to the presidential inner circle. Rumor has it; they even had the authority to hire ministers. Talk about an exclusive membership!   Despite the passage of time, the "Wenzeni uZuma" chant remains as persistent as a catchy tune you can't get out of your head. Some folks still insist that Zuma is the epitome of corruption. However, when the anti-Zuma brigade is asked to spill the beans on his allege

Throughout history, the role of women in society has undergone significant transformations, marked by challenges and opportunities. In ancient times, women were primarily assigned domestic tasks such as gathering vegetables and caring for the family while men engaged in hunting. Certain societies relied on women to cultivate fields, gather firewood, and cook, juxtaposed against men who assumed hunting responsibilities. As women's responsibilities centered around home and sustenance, their role naturally extended to childcare and ensuring food availability, positioning them for potential employment as domestic aides in affluent households. A woman working at the office, by Sora Shimazaki at Pexels.com The Influence of the French Revolution The 14th to 17th centuries marked a period of revival, introducing novel ideologies and the emergence of Napoleon Bonaparte's French Empire, epitomized by the monumental French Revolution. This revolutionary tide triggered transformative chang

From the moment they come into this world as infants, it is evident that children are here to learn and grow. With their bright eyes, tiny hands, and innocent hearts, they embark on a journey of discovery and development. A male pre-school teacher, doing ECD work. Image: Microsoft Designer AI Early Childhood Development (ECD) education plays a vital role in shaping the foundation of a child's future. However, the gender disparity in this field is evident, with women predominantly taking up roles as caregivers, while men often remain underrepresented. Challenging Gender Norms in ECD   Historically, societal perceptions have stereotyped men as the stronger gender, leading to boundaries being drawn around certain aspects of their lives. Caring for toddlers requires a nurturing and patient approach, traits that are often associated with femininity. Sadly, this has created a phobia against masculinity, causing men to shy away from pursuing careers in ECD.   Promoting Inclusivity a

  As the world changes also words used in our daily languages change in meaning. A long time ago the word arse or ass was known to mean a horse and the word cock was known to mean a rooster, but language use changed and some meanings took prominence. The word nigger or negra or any word with related syllables that may mean black comes from a word that was used in the past, a word for black. The Bible itself has a man called Simon the Niger, which in not so many words meant he was black and he probably had come from Lybia or surrounding areas. In the Spanish language, the word “black” is still negra or negro. But black people do not want light-skinned people (or white people, or any person who is not a black person) to call them negro or nigga, though they call each other as such, this is due to the past experience where the word negro was used as an insult to show black slaves that they were worthless commodities. The usage of the word “negro” in Spanish can be a sensitive and complex

  Tsotsi Taal is a South African slang, which is almost cross-cultural. It uses words that are formed by people in communities like in prisons or within townships and other habitats like under bridges, where some people stay. The word   tsosi   is a Zulu language word meaning thug while taal is an Afrikaner language word meaning language. Tsotsi Taal is made of many different languages How To Speak Tsotsi Taal. When people speak tsotsi Taal they mostly use their original vernacular and mix it with vital words from the Tsotsi Taal. Prevalent Tsotsi Taal variants are said to be Afrikaans and isiZulu variants, where words from other languages are integrated into the language to render meaning within the Taal. In South African media, we see people speaking Tsotsi Taal of their language variants, for example, a drama series like Zone 14, Yizo Yizo, and many other programs. How Is Tsotsi Taal Vocabulary Formed? Tsotsi Taal takes vital and good-sounding words from different languages. When th

Being rich is often associated with a multitude of privileges and opportunities that are not readily available to those with fewer financial resources. One aspect where the influence of wealth becomes apparent is in the belief held by some affluent individuals that money is the answer to all things. While this viewpoint may seem contentious or even arrogant, it is important to acknowledge that being rich can indeed grant individuals significant leverage and power to shape various aspects of their lives and the world around them. In this discussion, we will explore how the belief in money as the ultimate solution can hold some truth, particularly when examining the capacity of wealth to influence and catalyze change. However, it is also essential to recognize the limitations and complexities inherent in this perspective. By delving into these ideas, we can gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics between wealth, influence, and the belief that money can solve many problems. The power

  Maybe many of us view animals as lesser lifeforms because of our understanding of the earth. Taming the animals, it’s also believed that many years ago  when the human population began to increase, human beings also began to tame some animals. We began to tame the animals that we believed were going to be of greater use to us. Dogs are smart, and generally friendly animals This is evident when you look at animals like dogs. Dogs are generally friendly to their owners. They protect their owners and if the owner likes hunting, dogs can be at the forefront of the hunting activity. A dog can sacrifice its life for its owner, hoping that the owner will find a way to protect it or heal it if it’s injured. All it ever wants is to see the owner okay, alive and well. If a person is not well, a dog becomes worried. A story in the Bible says that there was a man called Lazarus, and this man was sick. This man, in his state of poverty and sickness, developed sores. Some people believe that dogs’

Within these 15 years, it’s speculated that the number of people who come out as gay has increased drastically. There are many speculations as to why a sudden increase. Some people believe that there are people who are employed to supposedly help people come out of the closet, but other people argue that those people are actually recruiting. Gender Whether the rumours are true or false, the question of what is deemed to some people as a conundrum is, ‘is being gay come by nature or by nurture?’. The population of the world has been growing drastically over the past 30 years, and as the population grows also does varieties of people. In this life we are all different, and maybe that’s the essence of life, the glory of life . Gay pride flags When someone becomes different in the way they view their gender, that becomes problematic in the view of the society in which they live. Social norms detect what one may become and how one may behave or act in life. It’s disregarded if these societa