Siyabonga Reflects

  The Unsaid Garden... Explaining yourself will wear you out. Image: Dezgo generative AI There's a wisdom that blooms with age, the understanding that explanations are not always necessary. We offer them readily, these seeds of justification scattered in the hope they'll take root in others' minds. But sometimes, the ground is not fertile for our explanations. We yearn for understanding, for the intricate garden of our choices to be admired and nurtured. Yet, explanations can feel like fragile seedlings, easily trampled in the rush of judgment. They can become weeds, choking the space for genuine connection. The truth is, some gardens flourish best in quietude. The gentle hum of your preferences, the unique blooms of your heart's desires – these are yours alone to cultivate. They are the roots that anchor you, a silent language only your soul understands. There's a freedom in letting your garden speak for itself, in the quiet confidence that your ch...

Procrastination: the word itself often evokes images of laziness, missed deadlines, and last-minute panic. But what if I told you that procrastination is not the villain it's made out to be? What if, in fact, procrastination could be your secret weapon to a more creative, productive, and balanced life? Before you scoff, let me take you on a journey through the lesser-known advantages of this much-maligned habit. 1. Creativity Thrives Under Pressure Have you ever noticed that some of your best ideas come when the deadline is looming large on the horizon? This isn't a coincidence. When the clock is ticking, your brain kicks into high gear, pushing you to think outside the box and come up with innovative solutions. This phenomenon, known as "eustress" or positive stress, can lead to bursts of creativity that wouldn't happen under more relaxed circumstances. Procrastination, therefore, can be a catalyst for creativity, transforming mundane tasks into opportunities for...